I have the pleasure of having a guest post from author Becky Wicks, who answers one of my favorite questions:
What was the most
difficult thing to overcome on your path to becoming a published author and how
did you conquer it?
BW: Great question! And thanks for having me on the blog by the
way. People ask me this a lot and to be honest the most difficult thing to have
to overcome at the start was probably fear. It's the same now, too. As an
author you fear a lot... rejection, bad reviews, other people's mean streaks.
It can all be too much to think about and in the end, all these niggling doubts
can build a wall between you and what you want to do. It seems easier not to
try!
Once I'd written my first manuscript, a travel memoir called
Burqalicious - The Dubai Diaries, I didn't know a thing about how to get
published and at times, the fear of rejection made me wake in the middle of the
night, stressing out! But in the end I reached out to agents and was lucky
enough to be signed the very same day. A month later I had my deal with
HarperCollins, but even then the fear of people hating my work once it was
published made me anxious. It never ends!
I think as an author, or any kind of artist, you have to
develop a very tough skin. For every critic reading your work and saying
something bad, there's another writer out there who was too scared to even
start writing, or to put their work out there in the first place. The same
applies to everything I guess. You have to remember, it's better to be in the
game than to stand on the sidelines wondering "what if."
by Becky Wicks
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BLURB:
Torn apart
by the tragedy. Thrown back together ten years later by destiny... Isla and Ben
were just sixteen when the Boxing Day tsunami ripped through their beach resort
in Thailand. Just days after forming a life-changing bond, both were missing
and presumed dead.
Based on real life events, The Day
of the Wave is a story of healing, learning to let go, and figuring out when to
hold on with everything you have left.
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EXCERPT:
'Isabella,' I said to the
girl in braids behind the computer. She was frantic, tapping away a million
miles an hour. A line of people were behind me. All of them were bedraggled and
beside themselves, like the cast of a war movie. 'Isabella from England. Izzy.
I left her on the beach. Can you look again?'
'We don't have any
Isabella's yet, I'm sorry,' she said. I asked a hundred times about Toby, too,
and Charlie and Van and Tee, but I always got the same answer.
They'd brought in experts
from everywhere - Austria, the Netherlands, Australia, Germany, and all of them
I realized quickly were carrying out the gruesome tasks it took to identify the
dead. Most of it wasn't even happening behind closed doors. There weren't
enough doors.
After a while, no one was
bringing the injured in anymore. It was just more bodies and still none of them
were Toby. Still none of them were Charlie or Izzy... at least, I didn't think
they were. There were panels of photos of the bodies as they were brought in,
on the walls. But they were all so horribly deformed. You can't even imagine
what water does. People go black, their eyes bulge out of their sockets. The
only way to recognize somebody at first is by their jewelry.
They were fingerprinting the
corpses, I discovered. They gave them full dental examinations and took X-rays,
then they sent the DNA samples away for analysis. It was when I learned they
were matching them to a missing-person's list in Phuket that I begged to be
taken there, to the International Hospital. I knew more bodies were there.
Maybe I'd find Toby there.
I found my mom instead.
She'd just flown in and been allowed a transfer. 'My baby,' she cried when she
found me, pulling me against her and sobbing. I was sixteen but her words hit
hard. I felt like a baby; a useless, helpless, broken baby. Glenn stood solid
like a tree behind her. He hugged me too. It was the first and last time he
ever did.
We moved to a hotel, where
we stayed for two weeks and I made it my job to look out for Sonthi. He was
going through the same thing, only he was still searching for twenty people he
loved. We played guitar at night. We knew the same Beatles song so we sang
together outside, taught ourselves the harmonies to take our minds off all the
tragedies. Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away, Now it looks as
though they're here to stay, Oh I believe in yesterday.
Even though Sonthi didn't
know the meaning of the words, I think they helped us both somehow. The
yesterdays we missed were haunting everyone but at least we escaped with our
lives.
I went with mom to the
councilor, too, but she cried all the way through, and she cried so much at the
hotel that I didn't sleep for days. I was a shell. I had no tears left.
'They're gone, they're never coming back,' mom yowled.
'We don't know that!' I
yelled at her, but she yowled even more into the walls and the floor and the
pillow, while a thousand other people doing the same made even the hotel feel
like a funeral parlor.
We got told that DNA breaks
down once bodies decompose. The longer we had to wait, the less chance we had
of identifying anyone. Eventually I had to say goodbye to Sonthi and everyone
at the hospital I'd gotten to know. Our flight was booked; my brother and uncle
and Izzy were officially missing, assumed dead. My mom was a pale-faced Martian
I didn't know anymore and she hadn't really spoken to me in days. 'Toby, my
baby, Toby!,' she wailed into Glenn's expensive shirt as he helped her outside
and into the taxi.
I was just about to leave
for the airport when the girl in braids came to grab me. 'Ben,' she said,
leaning down, putting a hand to my shoulder. I could tell by her face she had
bad news. 'We found Isabella, from the UK,' she said as the tears careened down
her face. 'There's only one on the list. I'm so sorry.'
It was raining when I got
outside. It was a real tropical downfall; the kind of rain that lashes and
hurts. I turned my face up to it and let it hit me as the wind howled. I wanted
to feel the physical crash of everything that had been breaking my heart. The
only thing I felt was how it wasn't rain at all. It felt like my brother and
Izzy and Charlie and two hundred thousand other souls were crying.
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AUTHOR Bio and Links:
Becky Wicks is mostly powered by coffee. She had three travel
memoirs published by HarperCollins before going the indie route. Her first book
in the Starstruck Series, 'Before He Was Famous' recently reached #1 in
Amazon's Coming of Age and New Adult & College categories. The second in the
series, 'Before He Was Gone', and the third, 'Before He Was A Secret' are both
out now along with 'The Day Of The Wave' - a romance based around the 2004
Boxing Day tsunami.
Becky blogs most days at beckywicks.com and always welcomes
distractions on Twitter: @bex_wicks (especially if you have cat photos)
Twitter: @bex_wicks
YouTube- Book Video:
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DeleteAny tips on how to get through the dreaded writer’s block?
ReplyDeleteMai, hopefully Becky will give her technique, but I have heard others say to either review to see whether things aren't making sense, to write something else, or to step away and get a fresh perspective. I suspect that each author has a different solution. Thanks for popping in!
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