I am happy to share words of wisdom from author C.C. Bolick (especially since chocolate is one of my go-to solutions when I am stressed, lol)
How to Handle Negative Criticism
by
C.C. Bolick
1) Take a trip to Antarctica so that only the penguins can hear you scream
in utter disdain.
2) Eat chocolate (my personal favorite).
3) As gracefully as possible.
No one wants negative criticism. Why do you
think there’s so much to go around? Everyone willing to put their work on
display should be prepared and accept their fair share. It’s part of being a
writer. It’s part of being human. “Ask and you shall receive,” my grandmother
always said.
Books are subjective. People are subjective.
Put the two together and there’s no telling what will happen next.
Remember:
1) You haven’t found true success until you’ve ruffled a feather or two.
2) You’re in good company.
3) There’s a lot to learn from hearing why someone isn’t gushing over your
work.
If an author says they never read reviews, my
question is… why not? A review means someone read my work and took the time to
give their opinion. A bad review means they didn’t like it for some reason.
Could be as simple as they thought the end should have been different. Or maybe
it’s a series and there’s more reading required to find the end. Can’t say I’ve
never been guilty of that. Could be this wasn’t their kind of story, or they
didn’t connect with the characters.
Don’t forget the part where someone actually read
my story. I’m always thrilled when anyone not only takes the time to read my
books, but also leaves a review. Even the bad reviews, as hard as they are to
swallow.
Keep in mind, if not for negative criticism,
as a writer you’d always wonder if people really like your work. Do they
connect? Would they recommend your stories to a friend? I’ve always believed if
it wasn’t for the bad times, the good times wouldn’t look so good.
Yes, fret a bit like the rest of us. Have a
drink if necessary, but keep writing. Use any juicy tidbits people offer to
help improve your story, as long as the suggestions make sense. If the review
feels like a personal attack and not about your writing, there’s not much you
can do except go on with life and try to offer hope to the next author.
I waited tables for several years in college.
Early on, I learned some customers couldn’t be satisfied if my life depended on
it. I once dropped an entire plate of blueberry pancakes in a woman’s lap and
still received a nice tip after helping her clean up. Embarrassing yes, but
probably more for me than her. Some people are at their best in a raw situation, and I’ve never forgotten her kind words.
Whatever happens, don’t forget why you
started writing.
And never, never, never tell someone their opinion
is wrong.
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by C.C. Bolick
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GENRE: YA Urban
Fantasy
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BLURB:
Seventeen-year-old Rena Mason counts the days until she can leave for
college. Every night her father drinks himself to sleep, leaving her to care
for her younger brother. When her father is kidnapped by terrorists, her dreams
of freedom become a nightmare.
Stunned
that her father has a history with these terrorists, Rena knows she must run or
be their next victim. She learns the tough guy at school has a reason to look
after her - he's working for a government agency with the same goal as the
terrorists: find a woman who disappeared eighteen years ago. Time is running
out since only this woman's special gift can save the world from a looming
nuclear attack.
Rena
can't trust anyone, especially not the stone-cold agent she's falling for. Can
they save the world before Rena's feelings trap her in an agent's fight for
justice?
Fear Justice contains elements of fantasy, sci-fi, and paranormal, with a clean
romance. It's the first book in an exciting new series called The Fear
Chronicles.
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EXCERPT
Tony cleared his throat. “You said your dad was
kidnapped?”
“Last night. Coach and my dad were friends. They
joined the Army together.” Why was I babbling? Tony didn’t need to know my life
story. “I showed up this morning because I thought he might know why these
people were after my dad.”
“Did either of them tell you?”
I shook my head and looked at Tony. “The man who
beat up Coach Andrews—he said he’d give me a head start before hunting me
down.”
Again, Tony glanced in the mirror. “He didn’t
happen to say he drives a black Lincoln, did he?”
As I spun in the seat and leaned over the headrest
to see, the belt cut into my neck. Behind us, a black car crept closer with
every second. Someone in the passenger seat leaned out of the window with a
gun. “There’s a man with a gun following us and I’m not freaking out. At least,
I don’t think I am.”
“No, you’re cool.”
With a bitter laugh, I turned back around and
dropped down on the red vinyl seat. “Cool? When are you going to ask why I’m
not afraid?”
Tony hit the brakes and made a turn that left me
choking from the belt’s grip. “Right after you ask why I picked you up.”
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AUTHOR Bio and
Links:
C.C.
Bolick grew up in south Alabama, where she’s happy to still reside. She’s an
engineer by day and a writer by night—too bad she could never do one without
the other.
Camping,
fishing… she loves the outdoors and the warm Alabama weather. For years she
thought up stories to write and finally started putting them on paper back in
2006. If you hear her talking with no one to answer, don’t think she’s crazy.
Since talking through her stories works best, a library is her worst place to
write… even though it’s her favorite!
C.C.
loves to mix sci-fi and paranormal—throw in a little romance and adventure and
you’ve got her kind of story. She’s written nine books including the LeftoverGirl series, The Agency series, and The Fear Chronicles.
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