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Life Lessons from Maeve Binchy
by
Joann Guidoccio
When
I attended my first critique group, one of the writers commented: “Your stories
remind me of Maeve Binchy’s books. Have you read them?”
Like many of her fans, I mourn the fact that there will not be another Maeve Binchy novel. I will also miss Maeve’s wonderful advice.
Here are my favorite life lessons from Maeve Binchy:
Be supportive
Maeve was blessed with parents who thought “all their geese were swans.” As an overweight child who did not excel athletically, Maeve appreciated the warmth and positive feedback she received. Later, she met and married Gordon Snell, a writer who also believed that Maeve could do anything.
In her novels, Maeve extended this positive reinforcement to her characters. She once explained: “I don’t have ugly ducklings turning into swans in my stories. I have ugly ducklings turning into confident ducks.”
Accept all gifts
In the early 1960s, Maeve worked in a Jewish school in Dublin where she taught French to Lithuanian children. At the end of the academic year, the parents gave her a trip to Israel as a present. At the time, Maeve had no spending money, but she went on the trip anyway and worked in a kibbutz—plucking chickens and picking oranges.
To
reassure her parents, she regularly describing her adventures. Impressed with
her writing, her father cut off the “Dear Daddy” bits and sent the letters to The
Irish Times. Equally impressed, the editor published her letters as travel
articles and later hired her as a columnist.
Visualize
When Maeve began writing stories and novels, she was still working as a journalist. She woke up each day at five-thirty and worked for three hours at the typewriter before going to work. To motivate herself on those dark mornings, she started to visualize the launch party for her first book. She imagined large crowds of people gathering and paying her compliments.
After
several rejections, her first novel (Light a Penny Candle) was accepted, but
the publisher had no intention of hosting a launch party. Maeve didn’t miss a
beat. She spent two hundred pounds, one-fifth of her advance, and organized her
own party in a room over a pub, complete with wine and crisps. She invited
family, friends, booksellers, and the publisher “who cringed with the shame of
it all.” In the end, it was such a good experience that Maeve sat down and
wrote another book.
Share
Success is not a pie where everyone who gets a slice has somehow diminished what’s left for everyone else. Maeve believed that success was “more like a cairn, a heap of stones where the more each person gets, the more it adds to the general body of work out there.” She urged aspiring writers to “borrow” the techniques of successful writers and present them in their own unique voices.
And, most important of all, keep at it.
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by Joanne Guidoccio
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GENRE: Paranormal Romance
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BLURB:
On the day
of her engagement party, an ex-mermaid’s life is disrupted by the unexpected
arrival of another mermaid—a sister she has never known. Under normal
circumstances, Barbara Davies would be overjoyed, but her special day is
already wrought with tension. While Barbara is not the first mermaid from the
Mediterranean kingdom to settle in small town Ontario, she has yet to reveal
her origins to her fiancé. So when Arabella, the gorgeous sister whose
disturbing black eyes banished her to the island of Crete, saunters into her
life, clutching the arm of Barbara’s discarded lover, a powder keg of emotion
is released.
Relationships falter and careers
stall as envy stirs in the hearts of the sisters. On the verge of meltdown
after her fiancé leaves Canada for a teaching job in Vermont, Barbara flees to
Arizona hoping for a reprieve. There, she finds solace at a retreat for
ex-mermaids and a second chance at love with a charismatic preacher. As she
contemplates a new life in the desert paradise of Sedona, shocking secrets
emerge and tragedy strikes. A stronger and wiser Barbara rises up to face these
new challenges and embrace the best parts of her mermaid heritage.
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EXCERPT
Arabella
threw back her shoulders and gazed down at Barbara. With her heels, she was
almost a head taller. “What I need is a relationship with you.”
“A
relationship with me?” Barbara repeated. She had been prepared for almost any
response but not that one.
“That’s
right. BFFs, soul sisters, whatever you want to call those tight bonds these
humans have.”
Barbara’s
eyes widened. “Do you even know or understand the concept of BFF?”
“Of
course, I do. A BFF is a best friend forever. You’re my twin sister. You can’t
get any closer than that.”
“It
doesn’t work that way,” Barbara said. “You can’t order up BFFs. Friends have
the same value systems and look out for each other. I can’t imagine you doing
that for me.”
“Or
you doing that for me,” Arabella said. “Mama’s explained all the reasons you’ve
been avoiding me, and I do understand the envy and bitterness.” She shuddered.
“I can’t imagine losing everything like you did. I don’t know what I would do.
But that’s neither here or there. I’m a part of your life, whether you like it
or not. And I’m not going anywhere. So, you better start being nice to me.”
“Are
you threatening me?”
Arabella
smiled and tossed her hair. “Everyone in your circle likes me. How would it
look if you ignored me?”
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by Joanne Guidoccio
by Joanne Guidoccio
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AUTHOR Bio and Links:
In high school, Joanne
dabbled in poetry, but it would be over three decades before she entertained
the idea of writing as a career. She listened to her practical Italian side and
earned degrees in mathematics and education. She experienced many fulfilling
moments as she watched her students develop an appreciation (and sometimes,
love) of mathematics. Later, she obtained a post-graduate diploma as a career
development practitioner and put that skill set to use in the co-operative
education classroom. She welcomed this opportunity to help her students
experience personal growth and acquire career direction through their
placements.
In 2008, she took advantage
of early retirement and decided to launch a second career that would tap into
her creative side and utilize her well-honed organizational skills. Slowly, a
writing practice emerged. Her articles and book reviews were published in
newspapers, magazines, and online. When she tried her hand at fiction, she made
reinvention a recurring theme in her novels and short stories. A member of
Sisters in Crime, Crime Writers of Canada, and Romance Writers of America,
Joanne writes paranormal romance, cozy mysteries, and inspirational literature
from her home base of Guelph, Ontario.
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DeleteWonderful to read through the life lessons.
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DeleteI thought they were inspirational, Mary. Thanks for dropping by!
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DeleteEnjoyed the read Joanne, I adore Maeve, such a poetic story teller.
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