I am happy to have a guest post by author Barbara Valentin, who answers my question...
ELF: What was the most
difficult thing to overcome on your path to becoming a published author and how
did you conquer it?
BV: Me. The most difficult thing to overcome was me. As driven
as I was to get published, I am a Grade A certified procrastinator. Granted,
with a full-time job and a family to support, there are plenty of things I can
prioritize over plunking my butt in front of my laptop and demanding absolute
silence.
Thankfully, my guys would have none of it.
Whenever they saw me folding laundry or pulling out
ingredients for dinner, they’d ask, “Shouldn’t you be writing?” or “Hey, why
aren’t you writing?” Worked like a charm. Some of the time.
Even when all of the day job and familial obstacles didn’t
exist, I still had to force myself write – even though I love it…even though I
would shrivel up and die if someone was foolish enough to come along and tell
me I couldn’t do it anymore.
The biggest incentive I had to finish my first manuscript
was a pitch appointment I had requested with an agent at conference I was
planning on attending (hosted by a local RWA chapter). Knowing the agent would
only be interested in completed (although not necessarily polished)
manuscripts, I did my level best to have it in the best shape possible by that
date.
I also put a no-fail back-up plan in place. To make sure I
wouldn’t slack off or lose my nerve, I got myself a critique partner. A fellow
member of my RWA chapter, he and I committed to meet every other week,
critiquing each other’s newly written chapters as we went along.
Finally, as a back-up to my back-up plan, I promised myself
something really, really special once I typed, “The End.” For me, that
translated into a day off of work, breakfast out with my hubs and a shopping
spree at my favorite clothing store. For you, it can be anything you like -
jewelry, a mani-pedi, a week in the Caymans...
Four books later, procrastination and me are still best
buds. I’m not proud to admit I wrote some of my best passages at two in the
morning whilst in the middle of an “I’m-not-gonna-make-my-deadline” cram
session. Then there were the nights I foolishly chose sleep over writing. I’d
invariably wake with a start in the wee hours, my head full of snappy-as-hell
bits of dialogue or, more often than not, the perfect “out” for the dead end I
had written myself into before I drifted off. And I’d have to drag myself out
of bed so I could jot it down before it vanished from my conscience mind.
No, I may not be setting a great example for my kids. I burn
my maternal candle at both ends, serve (and eat) way more junk food than I care
to admit, and am a slave to caffeine. Is it any wonder my wait-til-the-last
minute ways have rubbed off on my boys (Sunday night homework panic attacks
ring a bell?)?
But don’t worry. Whenever I see them watching TV or playing
video games, I ask, “Shouldn’t you be doing your homework?” or “Hey, why aren’t
you doing your homework?” Works like a charm. Most of the time.
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Flight Risk
by Barbara Valentin
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GENRE: Romantic Comedy/Chick Lit
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BLURB:
When Aubrey Thomas, a phobic travel writer, must chose between jumping to what she considers certain death from a skydiving static line or sinking even deeper into debt in the unemployment line, she scrambles to find someone—anyone!—who can help her overcome her debilitating fear of heights. Enter John Trelawney, a charming window washer who thinks nothing of dangling by a cable fifty stories up and claims he can cure her. Everything about John makes Aubrey nervous... including the way her heart kicks into overdrive whenever he's around. But, at the end of her rope, she takes him up on his offer. Can he really help her get over her fear of heights? Or will Aubrey find herself free falling...possibly even in love with him?
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EXCERPT
"So,
what's the game plan?" Aubrey asked, still deciding if she had the nerve
to follow her best friend’s advice.
What
you need is a one-nighter. With a really hot stranger.
John
turned to face her, those caramel-colored eyes smoldering in the streetlamp
glow. After looking at her a good long while, he said, "You're coming
upstairs. With me."
Right.
But
all she could do was grip the steering wheel even harder and avert her gaze to
the car parked directly in front of hers.
Damn
that Teddy.
Everything
her best friend had said earlier was spot on…and Aubrey knew it.
While
she was still deciding if she had the nerve to go through with it, she felt
John reach over and slide his warm, strong hand behind her neck, rubbing it
ever so gently.
Her
pulse quickening, she drew a deep breath and squirmed, "John, I—"
Before
she could finish, he withdrew it. "I understand. Be careful going home.
I'll call you first thing, all right?"
There
was no mistaking the disappointment in his voice. All she could do was give him
a quick nod.
Then
she saw him reach for his door handle. "Thanks for the ri—"
"Ya
know what? Yes."
He
stopped and looked at her. "Yes?"
Turning,
she locked her eyes onto his. "Yes, I want to come upstairs with you. But,
again, no—"
John
reached behind her, grabbed her bag, and scraped out, "No relationship.
Got it."
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AUTHOR Bio and Links:
Author of the bestselling
Assignment: Romance series, Barbara was named "Indie Star of 2015" by
Publishers Weekly. A member of Romance Writers of America, she looks forward to
the day when her to-do list includes "Send Oprah a thank you note"
and "Accept Godiva's request to be a taste-tester."
Social Media Links:
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DeleteHaha, great post. You will not get any judgment from me on procrastinating. lol. I do it a lot and I am trying to change that about myself. (Ummm.. not doing to well at the moment) I think it's so cool you have a family who's supporting your passion for writing! I am really enjoying following your tour! :)
ReplyDeleteI know, right? I truly appreciate my built-in support team. Good luck with your efforts to combat the procrastination monster! ;)
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